Dear Reader,
In the journey of self-care, one of the most challenging aspects can be letting go of the need for external validation and approval. It's natural to seek validation from others, especially from family and old friends whose opinions we hold dear.
However, true self-care requires breaking free from this cycle and prioritizing your own well-being above all else.
Why is change so scary?
Change can be daunting, both for ourselves and for those around us. It's common to face resistance and skepticism when we start prioritizing our self-care needs. The fear of judgment and criticism can hold us back from taking the necessary steps towards a healthier and happier life.
Show It, Don’t Tell It:
But remember, the only way to show the people who love you that you are doing what's best for you is by proving it through your actions. Stay committed to your positive course, even when faced with doubts and resistance. It's okay to outgrow old patterns and relationships that no longer serve you. Your well-being is non-negotiable.
Self-care is an act of self-love and self-respect. It's about honoring your needs, setting boundaries, and staying true to your values, even when it feels uncomfortable. Trust that by taking care of yourself, you are setting a powerful example for others to do the same.
Conculsion:
So, embrace the uncertainty, lean into the discomfort, and trust in your journey of self-care. Change may be scary, but staying stagnant in a place of unhappiness is scarier. Choose growth, choose yourself, and let go of the need for external validation. The only approval you need is your own.
Remember, you are worthy of love, respect, and happiness. Keep walking your path with courage and conviction, knowing that the greatest gift you can give yourself and those around you is a life lived authentically and wholeheartedly.
-Have a beautiful day filled with peace and love.
Christian V.
